(Closed) Charters of the Hive – Part XXVI

posted 7 years ago in TTC
  • poll: If you could have your choice of birth month (ha!) - which would you choose?

    January-February: Being older than everyone else in your birth year is cool.

    March-April: Spring is pretty.

    May-June: End of school year + bday = extra special.

    July-August: Summer BBQ birthday parties. Yes please.

    September-October: Why not?

    November-December: Holiday babies party harder.

  • Post # 17
    Hostess
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

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    @bananasareyellow:  hahah true! i’d vague mine out a bit more… anything from Feb-Sept would be good for me.  πŸ™‚

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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

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    @MrsPuddingface:  your chart is looking good so far! i also lol’d at your comment about people annoying the shit out of you. πŸ™‚

     

    Post # 19
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

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    @Birdee106:  thank you! πŸ™‚

    Post # 20
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

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    @MrsPuddingface:  totally with you in the whole married thing, I had no idea there was a man out there for me and never thought there was one that can put up with my crazy very independent character either haha…

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    @bananasareyellow:  Yeah, you are right, everyone would have voted for that haha

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    @FreckledFox:  I started to feel a little guilty that I was the only out here not thinking of kids until meeting the right person, since eveyone else (bless their hearts) wanted to be or knew that wanted to be mommies forever……I am all for adoption, too.  One thing I remember asking my parents, since I was a kid, was to adopt me a sister or brother cause my older brother was getting too old to play with lol…..and one of the things that I told my Darling Husband before we even settled was  that I wanted to adopt one day and I needed to know if he was on the same page and thank goodness, he said yes, one day we will. YAY ;))))))))))))))))

    Post # 21
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: January 2013

    TTC or TTA: TTC

    CD/DPO: CD 15/ Maybe might be 1DPO

    NUMBER OF CYCLES TRYING (OR TTC START-DATE): This is # 2 of actually trying

    ESTIMATED POAS DAY: I’m not really sure right now. We’ll see if FF gives me CHs for today’s temp rise. Maybe May 2nd, if this wasn’t O then maybe around May 5th

    AGE: 26, Darling Husband is 27

    CHART LINK: http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/utopia4us

    ISSUES (IF ANY): Trying to LD TTC. I am pretty sure we mostly missed my FW this month because Darling Husband was out of town and I may have o’d 4 days earlier than expected. My cycles since coming off BC have been a bit wonky, first, long then normal length with a short LP. I am hoping that if yesterday was O, it means that I will O around CD 14, and have 28 day cycles like my last one. Sure would be nice to be average! I am taking B6 and evening primrose oil just in case my LP does continue to only be 9 days like last time.

    WHEN YOU WERE A KID, DID YOU WANT TO BE A MOM? IF SO, BY WHAT AGE DID YOU EXPECT YOU’D HAVE KIDS?
    Honestly I didn’t really think about that as a kid. As a teenager I hated kids and didn’t want any, and even if you had asked me 5 years ago I probably would have said that I didn’t care either way. Then a couple years ago baby fever struck, Darling Husband got baby fever last year, and now here we are!

     

    Also I am curious to see if the poll results will be skewed considering how many of us want to be KU like yesterday! Currently I have myself convinced that a Jan or Feb baby would be awesome cuz that’s what we’ll get if things go as planned lol

     

    Post # 22
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

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    @calibee79:  πŸ˜› You know how most people have that one bad habit/trait  that annoys you? Like eating with their mouth open, chewing loudly, picking their nose, adjusting their balls, saying things like “I seen that”, breathing loudly, constantly sighing, constantly clearing their throat, biting their nails, spitting,  or constantly saying “right onnnn” to everything? And it’s fine in a friend or relative because you don’t have to live with them every day for the rest of your life. I had never lived with a guy before Darling Husband because I REFUSED to let any of them live with me because of the annoyance factor. I didn’t even like them leaving any of their stuff at my house. Well, before Darling Husband I had just never met someone where I thought “Wow! I totally won’t get sick of you and want to stab you in the eye while you sleep!”. It was a breakthrough moment πŸ˜‰ 6 years later and I still feel the same way. He has his annoying little things too, but they seem so insignificant now. Like, when he uses the microwave he puts something in for 2 minutes, then instead of waiting for the count to end and the microwave to DING, he opens the door with 2-6 seconds to spare and takes it out. Then he doesn’t CLEAR it. What is the POINT of that? hahaha I think he does it on purpose now though, because he knows it makes me grind my teeth. It’s one thing to like and love someone, it’s another to LIVE with them.

    How’s your dad doing, love?? He’s been in my prayers, along with the rest of your fam. XOX

    Post # 23
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

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    @MrsR4ever:  
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    @FreckledFox:  I just accepted your FF requests. Can’t wait to start chart stalking.

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    @bananasareyellow:  I voted in the poll for Jan/Feb, but only because that would mean I would get my BFP this cycle.

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    @calibee79:  OOOOHHHH! I’m so excited for you! FX!

    Post # 24
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

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    @MrsR4ever:  Awww! I’m so glad you found your guy!!! It’s crazy to me that I found mine. My friends STILL can’t believe it. And when I found Darling Husband, I changed. I’ve had friends remark that I never told them I loved them until after Darling Husband and I got together and that now I do it every time we talk/see each other, that I’ve become more touchy-feely with them, more open with my feelings, more loving in my spirit. And when I look back, it’s true. I’m more free with hugs and I tell people I love them all the time if I do. I used to be a tough old bag who was quick to raise her fists if someone messed with me, and now I’m a soft old hippy who goes around kissing and hugging and loving everyone. Did your Darling Husband change you in any way?

    Post # 25
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

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    @MrsPuddingface:  haha stab them in the eye while sleeping lol…love it!!! and the microwave thing? holy sh!t! I thought my Darling Husband was the only one that did that lol Im totally telling him there more out there like him lol……also, one thing that kills me, but learned to live with it, he doesnt change the paper toilet in the bathroom, like he will bring a new roll and just put it on top of the toilet or on the floor, but will not change it in the roller (is that the word?) lol…drives me crazy, but i learned to just do it myself, no biggie anymore  πŸ˜‰

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    Honey bee
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    @MrsPuddingface:  yes, he did, for sure and everyone, including my parents told me that he made me a very much calm, more open and nice person (i guess i was a bitch lol) i think what they meant was that i was a very cold hearted person and now I am not.  My friends and family told me that he made me a better person and I have to say, he has.  Im a better person because of him.  ;))) so nice to know you are a love bug *smooches* love it!

    Post # 27
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

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    @MrsR4ever:  DH does that too with the TP! He even leaves the empty roll on the holder! It’s funny how stuff that used to drive you batsh!t just makes you laugh now though  – right? haha
    Awww, you’re a big softy too! I think true love really HAS to change you, you know? It’s too huge of a thing for it not to affect you in SOME way. XOX

     

    Post # 28
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: January 2013

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    @MrsR4ever:  I think the best part about my Darling Husband is that he does plenty of those stab you in the eye things, but I just don’t care! He does things that no one else could get away with but he’s just so darn cute while he’s doing them! Before I met Darling Husband, I had never dated a guy I could respect and view as an equal before. I know that sounds really snobby, but it’s true. I know that with my Darling Husband I will have always met my match in everything I do.

    Post # 29
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Hey ladies… I need you to look at something thats bothering me:

    Maybe you’ve seen this thread… Can you tell me if i was out of line or insensitive? http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/donor-insemination-keeping-it-a-secret/page/2#post-

    It’s bothering me that I may have hurt her, but I’m not sure who is wrong (if anyone at all since its opinions). I’m taking offense to her posts (the girl who is responding to me), but maybe i shouldnt. I’m taking them personally.. I dont ever want to hurt anyone. I probably shouldnt of posted since i have no experience.

     

    Post # 30
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

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    @MrsPuddingface:  the empty roll!!! I know!!! just laugh, just laugh about it lol…

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    @Utopia4us:  I dont think its snobby at all, dear.  I think you are right on trying to find your equal or in my words; someone that can acutally put up with me and someone i can stand, y’know.  Im glad you find that person, everyone deserves to be happy and have their happyly ever after ;)))

    Post # 31
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

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    @Birdee106:  oh awesome! I will ask him for sure! I dot get to talk to Darling Husband for 2 days now :,( when I work he is off. And when he works I am off…. I hate long distAnce relationships sometimes . (Insert grumpy face) but I will ask him maybe saTurdaY when we are able to talk to one another again.! Ps. I love that you haVe a Canadian diamond. Woot woot! 

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