(Closed) Cheated?

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
Hostess
10344 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2014 - Chicago, IL

I think you need counselling for yourself so you can get to the bottom of whether this is a deal breaker for you or not. From the sounds of it, I don’t think you’ll ever be able to trust him – and that is not a way I would enter into marriage.

Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

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tara1201:  I’m sorry you’re in this position. None of us can say if he cheated. His behaviour has been unacceptable in the past, that’s certain. But I do know that you shouldn’t marry a person if you don’t trust them – that will never end well.

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

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tara1201:  Let’s just say I’m very, very skeptical of the “She begged him for a ride to the airport” story. The ex didn’t have to ask him for a ride to the airport. The very fact that she was visiting the state means she was visiting someone, so she had other options. 

Post # 5
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Bumble bee

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tara1201:  From what you’ve been saying I would be very skeptical about it, things don’t add up and sound right. And sending pictures of her in her underwear… Come on that is far from innocent! It’s hard to believe when he actually saw her in reality nothing goes on. Personally I would put it down to cheating.

Now you need to decide what to do about it. Will you ever be able to trust him? Can this relationship really progress forward with it like this? Without trust marriage or a future relationship is going to be off the tables. Can you talk to him about and it and get him to be frank? Or will he most likely lie about it? i think only you can know whether to get past it but I think personally you won’t be able to because it’s been years already and you can’t get past it.

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