(Closed) Cheating

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 16
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1170 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

My ex cheated on me with a friend.  I found out when he left me for her.  Her Darling Husband was my ex’s best friend.  It happens.

Post # 17
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96 posts
Worker bee

I have never cheated on a partner.

I have been cheated on in both serious relationships that I have been in.

The first was my high school and college boyfriend. Found out when my best friend saw him making out and grinding on a girl at a club – a girl who I had suspicions about but he constantly reassured me she was just a friend. I was sick of his crap anyway so was releived when it was over.

The second hurt more because our relationship was more serious, we’d been together 5 years and according to him he was about to propose to me and we were looking for a house. Anyway he had a childhood friend who he always claimed was just a friend, but again I had my weird feelings but didn’t want to be too paranoid and let my past make me too anxious. I found out when he went on vacation with her (after telling me he was going with his guys) and I saw pictures of them all over facebook and instagram together, tagged as a couple and cuddling/making out. He never came back from that vacation. He broke up with me over text. They are still together. This happened last fall and I’m just now starting to feel human again.

I really really hope I can find someone trustworthy one day. Being cheated on sucks.

  • This reply was modified 3 years, 6 months ago by  carmens.
Post # 18
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1326 posts
Bumble bee

juneberries:  

I have never cheated. 

I’ve had a couple of partners who said they “needed some space”… But then they were immediately banging some other chick. Not sure if breaking up with someone because you’ve already found someone else technically counts as cheating, but it sure feels like it at the time… 

FWIW, I don’t think it was the PP who made an ass of herself… 

Post # 19
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255 posts
Helper bee

soymilk:  She’s always biting everyone’s heads off on her questions….

Post # 20
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255 posts
Helper bee

juneberries:  No, I have never cheated on any SO.

I was cheated on once. I found out after his actions quickly changed and my mother noted something was up. I left, but I was willing to pretend like I didn’t see. He left me for my best friend.

Post # 21
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1165 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

juneberries:  No I’ve never cheated. No I’ve never been cheated on. If I was to be cheated on, I would probably leave. Luckily my fiancé and have have a very open and trusting relationship with each other so I’d be floored if something like that every happened to us. 

Post # 22
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3306 posts
Sugar bee

I was cheated on- which ended my marriage. 

I made the decision to divorce once I realized he wanted to sit on the fence. 

Surviving Infidelity (www.survivinginfidelity.com) helped me cope.

I have never cheated. 

Post # 23
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97 posts
Worker bee

I strongly suspect my ex cheated but I only found out after we’d broken up. I NEVER thought he’d cheat.

I hope I wouldn’t cheat but you can never say never.

  • This reply was modified 3 years, 5 months ago by  footprints.

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