(Closed) Cheating: 82% want to know, yet 60% wouldn't tell a friend?

• babypearls
• 8 years ago

• babypearls
• 8 years ago

Ill continue to comment where ever I plz if u dnt like it ignore it never said anything negative about u the person honestly I dnt even remember who u r I just comment… but obliviously u recognize me so who is the frenemy?U seem like a nasty person to attack someone that nvr attacked u personally is WRONG and therefore justifies ur narcissism. It seems u cant understand anyone that disagrees with u. U def need a self evaluation

ETA: oh now I see ur post which u edited after calling ppl low class for putting their pregnancy tests up and I said that name calling isn’t right but wen u edited it I said thank OP for rephrasing it and YOU hav an attitude about a post from 3 wks ago WOW that’s extremely petty

Where I stand and will always stand is judging ppl is not right and I will nt shut up about it. Having an opinion is fine asking questions and discovering and helping each other to the best our ability is what this community is for but being rude and judging is NOT right sry OP if u hate me for that fine but it is wat it is

And if u cn give me an example of me twisting ur words (that u didn’t edit afterwards) plz let me kno

http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/used-pregnancy-test-photos-on-fb-and-other-tmi-posts/page/2#axzz2VPLWyQu4 

this is the post ur talking about as u see I was the first to respond and was kind in response to u, if u edited something hav the integrity to say so and nt use it to ur advantage, I’m a vry nice person wat u did is a form of BULLYING as u know they come in many forms and this is one and I’m actually sad to see u r that type of person

• Lollybags
• 8 years ago

• Wedding: April 2014

My FI’s ex-wife cheated on him. His take on it is that he would want to know. If he knew a friend was being cheated on he says he’d give the person 24 hours to tell them and if they didn’t do it within that time period then he would do it.

I would definitely want to know if I was engaged to a cheater..I think it does become more complicated when there are children involved though.

• vmec
• 8 years ago

• Wedding: May 2012

• Everdeen
• 8 years ago

• Wedding: September 2015

http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/friend-cheating-do-i-tell-or-mind-my-own-bees-wax#axzz2VPUUwzcp.

• bklynbridetobe
• 8 years ago

OP perhaps you need to step away from the Bee for while. I dont see why you got so riled up by a random comment in a three week old thread and think someone is stalking you. 

• MrsSkeletonKey
• 8 years ago

• Wedding: July 2013

I don’t care what the situation, I would totally tell basically anybody if I knew they were being cheated on. But then again, I’m one of those nasty brides who doesn’t agree w/ strip clubs, hooters etc..

But if I knew of “gossip” pertaining to cheating, I would at least tell the bride what I had heard, & let the bride make the decision for herself.

That is the same courtesy I would hope to be provided with, and I like to live by the Gold Rule.

• everyheart
• 8 years ago

• Wedding: June 2013

Part of the reason for the disparity could be that different people are voting in the polls.

Or no one wants to be the bearer of bad news.

• MrsSkeletonKey
• 8 years ago

• Wedding: July 2013

• Sarahsmarried
• 8 years ago

• Wedding: May 2013