posted 4 years ago in Relationships
Post # 76
235 posts
Helper bee

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cheezybrie :  OMG your post literally made me throw my phone!!!! What a prick. Kind of wby I’m scared to get married😢

Post # 77
147 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2019

GOODBYE!!!!!! Wow. I have no words to say. I would run, far… FAR away!!! Trust me, there are much better guys out there who will treat you right and will be loyal. Unfortunately, we all have to kiss a few frogs to find the right one. Please do not go back to him, you gave him his chances and he blew it and lied right to your face. Do yourself a favor and leave this loser! You deserve SO much better. 

Post # 78
720 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

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alliegeeb :  Don’t be scared of marriage! My husband likes the term “trust but verify”. It’s scary giving someone your heart. Really though I didn’t know them the whole 10 years, we hung out a lot the last year of their marriage and we never suspected, but I do wonder if there were red flags earlier on. I know our mutual friend who is a bff to each of us didn’t see it at all and she’s known them their entire relationship. It’s a crazy world out there. I just don’t understand how he lives with himself. The guilt would eat me alive. I think he’s just a sociopath.

I will say, be active in the finances! Lol. I would never be in a relationship where I didn’t get to see bank statements and know of all accounts, including credit cards. In my marriage I handle the finances 🙂

Post # 79
131 posts
Blushing bee

sorry hun, you need to leave this loser. He seems to be a lying scumbag…

Post # 80
9 posts
  • Wedding: Mirage

I’m so sorry that your going through this. Honestly, leave this man alone. He is not a good man. He preyed on an 18 year old. What does a 27 year old have in common with an 18 year old. It screams creepy … He bad mouthed the woman he supposedly wanted to spend his life with. He is a flat out liar as well. I believe people make mistakes but for the most part I do believe in once a cheater always a cheater. You don’t hurt someone you love. You will find someone else . There are so many good men in this world… Keep yourself busy and leave this guy alone you don’t need him. 


Feel better girl I hope things work out <3 xo

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