(Closed) Cheating guy- what would you do?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: What should she do?
    Not contact him, but email the girlfriend. : (19 votes)
    61 %
    Contact him to let him know she's wise to him, leave girlfriend. : (2 votes)
    6 %
    Stay out of it. : (10 votes)
    32 %
  • Post # 4
    9094 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012

    I would personally find a way to contact the other woman. If I was being two timed, I’d want to know. Even if the first girl stays with him and your friend leaves him, he’d just find another girl to fill the slot.

    Edit: Off topic, but your last statement and your username conflicting made me giggle.

    Editx2: I would not tell the man what I was doing or that I was on to him. This gives him an opportunity to contact the other girl and fabricate a story.

    Post # 5
    6040 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2019 - City, State

    this is such a tough spot to be in. its clear she needs to just move on. Idk though about telling the girlfriend. thats a very slippery slope. It can go both ways ya know? Im sorry I don’t have any real useful advice on that end but for sure she needs to cut that off immediately.

    Post # 6
    317 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    @mamadingdong:  Sounds like your friend should dump the guy, forget about the girl (I hate when girls get pissed at other girls that they have absolutely no relationship with) and get tested for stds stat.  If he wanted to have sex with her without a condom and he is in fact cheating, who knows whether he has protected sex with his other partners.  

    You on the other hand, need to just be there for your friend.  Perhaps you can help keep her mind off of the guy by planning a few girl nights.

    Post # 7
    392 posts
    Helper bee

    @mamadingdong:  Not see the guy again, not contact the other girl and get tested for STIs if they’ve had unprotected sex. I agree with ArtDecoLisa completely!

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