Post # 1
My friend met a guy last summer that she was really, really into. About 2 months in, she stopped seeing him because she found out he was sleeping with another girl and badmouthing her.
She just told me today that she started seeing him again around Thanksgiving- casual dating, nothing serious. She just saw pics on his fb of him and a girl and it looks to be a girl friend. They are hugging and look intimate. They were on a trip to Ireland together in Sept and then photos from about 2 weeks ago. My friend just slept with him on Monday and he was asking to do it without a condom. Gross gross gross.
Now, do you guys think she should contact the girlfriend and give her a heads up? Or just disappear and never speak to him again?
Post # 3
I’m so mad about this! Some men are so sleazy.
Post # 4
I would personally find a way to contact the other woman. If I was being two timed, I’d want to know. Even if the first girl stays with him and your friend leaves him, he’d just find another girl to fill the slot.
Edit: Off topic, but your last statement and your username conflicting made me giggle.
Editx2: I would not tell the man what I was doing or that I was on to him. This gives him an opportunity to contact the other girl and fabricate a story.
Post # 5
- Wedding: October 2019 - City, State
this is such a tough spot to be in. its clear she needs to just move on. Idk though about telling the girlfriend. thats a very slippery slope. It can go both ways ya know? Im sorry I don’t have any real useful advice on that end but for sure she needs to cut that off immediately.
Post # 6
@mamadingdong: Sounds like your friend should dump the guy, forget about the girl (I hate when girls get pissed at other girls that they have absolutely no relationship with) and get tested for stds stat. If he wanted to have sex with her without a condom and he is in fact cheating, who knows whether he has protected sex with his other partners.
You on the other hand, need to just be there for your friend. Perhaps you can help keep her mind off of the guy by planning a few girl nights.
Post # 7
@mamadingdong: Not see the guy again, not contact the other girl and get tested for STIs if they’ve had unprotected sex. I agree with ArtDecoLisa completely!
Post # 8
Oh she is not mad at the other girl at all. the email would be a “hey your boyfriend has been stepping out with me.” type of email.
tonight is happy hour so we will help her drown her sorrows!!
Post # 9
@Hyperventilate: I’m mad in a super relaxed way 🙂