(Closed) Chemical Pregnancy – Early Miscarriage….Wait time…. Help..

posted 5 years ago in TTC
  • poll: When should I TTC again.
    JUNE. Go for it! You're super fertile after a MC : (15 votes)
    39 %
    JULY! Give your body and mind time to heal : (7 votes)
    18 %
    Whenever you want, doesn't really matter. : (15 votes)
    39 %
    I got my sticky baby after my CP (or MC) : (1 votes)
    3 %
    I wish I would have waited after my CP - ended in multiple (MC) (or MC) : (0 votes)
  • Post # 2
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: January 2015

    I say go for it. I have 2 close friends that got their sticky babies the month after a CP. The babies are now almost 1 🙂 good luck!  

    Post # 3
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I would wait personally. I had a CP in March and my next cycle I still felt things were kind of weird and cleaning out… the second cycle after was normal. We weren’t trying though but I totally get not wanting to wait. If anything the cp made me want to move our timeline up and start right away!

    Post # 4
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    Blushing bee

    I didn’t wait – my cycle was completely normal after my CP and now at almost 30 weeks I’m very happy I didn’t wait! CPs usually occur because of chromosomal issues so it often means that you just had really bad luck but it isn’t a sign of any other problem. Your body (although your mind may be different) doesn’t need to heal from anything, it is ready to go when you ovulate again. It is uncommon to have recurrent CPs and, if you do, then obviously there is another underlying problem that needs to be taken care of before getting pregnant again.

    Post # 5
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    Alip22:  sorry to hear sweetie 🙁 

    do what works for you! I said this in your other thread but o got pregnant 3 cycles after my cp. I’m glad we started trying again right away, And my ob said it was ok.

    Post # 6
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: City, State

    Alip22:  I had a mc at 9 weeks and was told that there was not a good reason to prevent pregnancy after that, but the did encourage me to wait. I ended up with a CP a few weeks later and tried right away. I figured if I could try again after a later loss, why not after a CP?

    I’m not going to lie, I wish I waited. My body is a hormonal wreck and I’m an emotional wreck. I would say that it’s fine to try if you feel emotionally strong enough, just be prepared for a wonky cycle.

    • This reply was modified 4 years, 6 months ago by  Pollywog.
    Post # 7
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: December 2013

    Alip22:  Since you will bleed like it is a normal period, you can start trying this cycle (the bleeding indicates CD1). I had a CP/MC with my first pregnancy (I was 6.5 weeks, though, when it began) and my doc said since I bled and had a “cycle”, that there was no issue. We got pregnant that very cycle and I am currently 8+5 weeks pregnant. So sorry you are having to go through this. Hoping you get your rainbow baby very soon.

    ETA: My cycle after the MC began was completely normal. Bled for 5 days, ovulated CD21, got my positive at 12DPO. My positive with this pregnancy was much darker.

    • This reply was modified 4 years, 6 months ago by  KatiePi.
    Post # 8
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    I got pregnant the next cycle after my CP, and am now 19 weeks! I say go for it if you feel ready. good luck! 🙂 

    Post # 9
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    During my early MC at 6 weeks I was told to wait a few cycles.  I think this was right in this situation, because my body needed some time to heal.  During my last cycle I had a CP, but got AF the day it was expected.  I decided not to wait.  I’m in my TWW, so we will see.  

    Post # 10
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Because you were only 4 weeks i’d say go for it. I had a CP in February and my RE told me to try again straight away. It didn’t work out for me but we have fairly severe fertility issues and were heading towards IVF anyway.

    Post # 12
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Alip22:  it is really awful to go through xox I’m still dealing with it. physically I really only had one bad day of cramps and a couple days of heavy bleeding – the first being fairly clotty. It wasn’t too much different than I normally experience during a period. Hope it is over quickly for you. Good luck next cycle. Hope you get a sticky BFP quickly.

    Post # 13
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I would personally just go ahead right away TTC such an early loss is really just like getting AF. I got my BFP at 12 DPO then started bleeding 4 days later (stopped charting and testing after my BFP so I don’t know what those would have looked like). My next cycles didn’t result in a BFP but the cycles were totally normal.

    Sorry for your loss. It totally sucks.

    Post # 14
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I’m also going through a CP/MC at the moment.  I was just past the 4-week mark as well.  Got a very faint BFP and two days later the cramping started.  So sorry for your loss.

    We are going to be trying again right away.  I feel emotionally and physically ready.  The CP didn’t really affect my cycle length that much, so I’m hoping that the extra fertility following a MC combined with my cycle (hopefully) still being regular will produce a sticky one! 

    Emotionally, the loss has been sad and disappointing, but I feel so blessed to have been a part of that baby’s life, even if it was for a short time.  It obviously was not meant to be, and I have my suspicions that it may be been an ectopic/tubal pregnancy. Before the bleeding started I had some sharp stabby pains off on my left side.  I’d far rather have my body deal with it naturally on its own than have to make some heart-breaking decisions down the road.

    Best of luck to you!

    Post # 15
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Alip22:  good luck next cycle! Definitely count the first day of bleeding as CD1. It didn’t effect my cycle length at all. It totally sucks though and I’m sorry you’re going through it. 

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