(Closed) Chewing my arm off… How to get everyone NOT to come to our wedding?!?

posted 5 years ago in Family
Post # 3
1649 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2000

Welcome to the lovely world of wedding planning.  Someone’s feelings will always be hurt.  Can you do a destination wedding somewhere? That usually cuts the list down if people have to fly. 

Post # 5
1522 posts
Bumble bee

@Diamondgurl:  +1 like u said u really cnt, that’s like a arrow to the heart I believe u need to elope and only bring ur immediate family this way there’s no sensitivity 

Post # 6
2831 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Elope but don’t keep it a secret. Send out an announcement as soon as you have eloped to let you family know that you are now a Mrs.!!… Also let them know that a celebration is in the works after basic training and will be following up with an invitation.


Post # 7
10277 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

Just say exactly what you said here.  That  you are doing a private ceremony for immediate family only that will be followed by a reception in your honor after basic training that will include everyone.   Don’t be embarrassed! 




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