(Closed) Children at the wedding

posted 6 years ago in Logistics
Post # 3
Member
34 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: November 2012

It is YOUR wedding. I don’t think your being unreasonable but I really don’t like that his grandmother is refusing to attend. That isn’t right. I probably would end up letting the 4yr old come but then be bitter about it. Don’t let anyone bully you into doing something you don’t want to do, but i guess it comes down to what is more important to you having his grandmother there or not having the 4yr old? have you told his grandmother that your offended/ you just had a no kid under 6 policy?

I am only inviting children that are family. meaning family friends kids are a no go and geeez my fmil wasn’t too thrilled with that but too bad. I don’t feel like spending 100/ per child that I don’t even know.

 

Post # 4
Member
443 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

You are not being unreasonable. Period. 

For a lot of parents, their world revolves around their kids. No problem there. But when they want your world, and your wedding, to do the same… Um, no. 

 

Post # 5
Member
1629 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

No, you are not being unreasonable.  You cannot pick and choose which under-6 kids are allowed, you set the rule, made it known, and they are basically using emotional blackmail.  It is time for your Fiance to talk to his family and make it clear that this is what HE wants (not just you) and that he won’t be manipulated into being rude to other guests like this.

Post # 6
Member
3618 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

No you’re NOT being unreasonable. It would be unfair for you to make the exception for this one child and not all the others. Hopefully your grandmother is only bluffing.

 

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