- 6 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012
In our wedding party we are haveing three children. Two flower girls and a ring bearer. The flower girls, my neices will not be coming to the recption, but our ringbearer will be. So I’m pretty much haveing a no children at the wedding wedding except these three. Fiance and I decided to have it this way like the day after we got enegaged. Wedding invites were sent out Thursday and started arriving today.
Today I get a facebook message from one of FI’s cousins asking if she can bring her kid who is under two to the wedding. I was putting some things away in the bedroom and FI’s says check face book. I go why? We got a message on facebook from my cousin about kids at the wedding. Admittly I did go on a bit rant about of course we did. For some reason this really pushed my buttons. I think mainly cause his family has had the real issues with the wedding so far. His dad is complaining about the tie he has to wear, his aunt may not come because we will not be using her son as our DJ,(he was the one mind you who never called us back about doing it for over four months and we finally gave up on him), his mother who is making a big deal about the handfasting we are haveing cause its wiccan, and his sister who almost wasn’t coming because of cruise to Europe she is taking 10 days before the wedding.
I told the cousin politely that only the kids in the wedding party will be at the wedding and that only one whould be at the reception. She responded with ok no problem. Now I just have this feeling shes upset about it. And now I feel bad about saying no even though thats what we said from the beginning. But then part of me was like well she got someone to babysit for her when they went on a two week cruise last month with no problem, it shoudn’t be a issue for one night. Le Sigh.