(Closed) Chinese Wedding Superstition Clarification…??

posted 9 years ago in East Asian
Post # 3
652 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

I believe it is that you are stealing their luck.

Post # 4
150 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Oh, wow, I’d never heard that one! I hope it’s not true, because I’m rescheduling our honeymoon just to attend my best friend’s wedding. I would hope that the love just rubs off all around! 🙂

Post # 5
318 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

The superstition is you are not supposed to attend someone’s wedding if they are getting married the same month as you because you will be stealing their luck.

Post # 6
318 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Whether it is the same lunar calendar month or solar calendar month I’m not sure, but I can ask my parents if you’d like

Post # 8
7173 posts
Busy Beekeeper

My understanding was it 30 days (not necessarily the same month).

I only know this because there were two weddings: October 14th and Sept 23rd – and the Oct 14th couldn’t attend the Sept 23rd (Because of the superstition issue).  


Post # 9
20 posts

It’s true that you should not attend someone else’s wedding if you got married before her and within 30 days.

It’s generally good not to go against the tradition and it did no harm to you if you follow it.

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