(Closed) Choking During Sex????

posted 1 month ago in 20 Something
Post # 106
Member
4042 posts
Honey bee

obviousanonymous :  read for comprehension before you go off on a tirade about the “implications” of my post. I was puzzled why she went along with it WHEN HE ASKED HER. I never implied, hinted, made allusions to or stated that she should have fought back. I know I would have been freaked out, which I am entitled to say. The guy was lucky she was calm and accepting and basically trusted him. I’m not going to second guess the OP. 

Check your implications at the door. If I mean something I say it. I dont imply it. I am quite blunt. Dont be looking for hidden meanings as a way to lecture about sexual assault. I’m not here to provide your moral outrage porn.

Post # 107
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1334 posts
Bumble bee

obviousanonymous :  

She was “paralysed by fear” so she met up with him the next day, had sex with him again and told him he could choke her again? If so then OP needs some counselling ASAP to look into why she continues to meet men for sex who do things that “paralyse her with fear” and why she consents to things sexually that she doesn’t want to do. 

If not then I stand by my point that if you’re going to have sex with someone then you need to be confident enough to tell that person when you don’t like something they’re doing, for your own enjoyment and safety. 

Post # 108
Member
794 posts
Busy bee

sweetdee89 :  OK your comment really is something “sweet Dee” would say (referring of course to the “Its Always Sunny” Sweet Dee)

No. No. No. No. No. No.

Just no to everything you said with your first comment. Wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong. 

…wrong. 

Post # 110
Member
4042 posts
Honey bee

obviousanonymous :  I just now read your earlier post about “poor widdle sunburn”. As is my way, I’m not going to hint or imply anything. 

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Post # 111
Member
400 posts
Helper bee

I wonder how two of OPs guys have used choking as a sex tool. Is this that common nowadays?  

I also hope she is okay and comes back to update us either way. 

Post # 112
Member
1963 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

threecrazycats :  she shouldn’t have to speak up. YOU ASK. What planet are you on?

Post # 113
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1963 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

I didnt know this choking thing was even a thing. Wth.

Post # 114
Hostess
1595 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

This thread is deteriorating. Closing now. 

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