Choosing between 2 dresses! Help me pick! (Pic heavy)

posted 2 years ago in Dress
  • poll: 1st or 2nd dress?
    Dress 1 : (133 votes)
    68 %
    Dress 2 : (63 votes)
    32 %
  • Post # 31
    368 posts
    Helper bee

    The first one is so pretty! Looks like you could have some fun in it as well!

    Post # 32
    85 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: August 2021

    vanbrider :  being tall does not automatically mean you are more beautiful 

    Post # 33
    17 posts

    I think the second, but I dont really think either of them look that nice on you, they’re too flappy/like curtains and that takes away from your lovely figure!

    Post # 34
    145 posts
    Blushing bee

    Both are lovely, but keep in mind that if you choose a dress that’s really “of the moment”, your wedding photos may look dated at some stage. This isn’t a reason necessarily not to do it, but if this would bother you than think it over 🙂

    Post # 35
    94 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: July 2018

    I love dress one! Who is the designer?

    Post # 36
    555 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2017

    I’m going to go with the unpopular opinion of.. keep looking. I think the bottom first is beyond ridiculous – it won’t be timeless in photos and well it looks hard to maneuver in. I like everything about the second, except for the drop waist (i don’t like anything drop waist). 

    Post # 40
    60 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: January 2018

    diamondbeez :  ooohhhh i intially said #1 but now I’m thinking #3. Stunning!

    Post # 42
    92 posts
    Worker bee

    Seriously both dresses are SO beautiful on you girl!!! I don’t get why everyone is being so critical. I don’t think that either look like curtains or table cloths…these dresses are made of gorgeous expensive lace for crying out loud!! If it was me personally choosing, I would go with dress #2 even though I love #1 as well! Dress #2 has a very royal look about it and looks gorgeous on you! You have a beautiful figure that would look good in any dress though! My word of advice to you is to not let too many peoples oppinions on here or in your family/friend group get in your head because that will only make making the decision about your dress harder for you because everyone has different taste and belief about what looks good in a wedding dress and always will. Trust me, I posted some pics of my own dress on her asking for peoples oppinions and every person has a different one about it. You’re never going to reach a 100% concencus…Sometimes you just have to go for what you feel is right and what you know is the best choice for you in your heart. You should get the dress that makes you feel happiest and most beautiful on your day girl because you’re the one wearing it..and you’re the only one really whos going to be looking back at your wedding album when all is said and done…none of us will be. You’ll be the only one who has to look at your photos for life. My question to you is do you wanna remember your wedding dress as the time you gave into the oppinions of everyone else and picked a dress that would please most people or do you wanna remember your dress as the dress that made you happy? At the end of the day thats all that matters, that you’re happy with the one you picked and how it looks! I know everyone on here is just trying to be helpful to you and has good intentions as I do as well, but saying stuff like your dress options look like old curtains and the dress is not proportionate doesnt make anything better for you and im sure it doesnt make you feel good either. A simple its not my taste would do just fine in letting someone know you don’t like a dress, but i get people want to be as honest with you as possible… Idk just some of these comments seem to be putdowns and thats upsetting because I don’t think that’s necessary. That’s my two cents, anyways! Just remember, the dress isn’t what makes the girl beautiful. Its the girl inside the dress that makes the dress beautiful. I wish you all the best on finding your dream gown and if these two dresses aren’t that dream for you then keep looking and find the one that makes you smile! But truthfully both dresses are beautiful and theres nothing wrong with them at all!! 

    Post # 43
    210 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2018

    I voted for 1, because it is so unique and im drawn to unique – they both however are gorgeous and both are stunning on you!

    Post # 44
    107 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2018

    Number one for sure! Just imagine twirling and dancing on your wedding day with all those gorgeous layers!

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