(Closed) Choosing bridesmaids?

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
14496 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Welcome to the HIVE!

What about asking her to be your personal attendant?  That way she can be apart of things without being a Bridesmaid or Best Man and you can have your friend there.  I wouldn’t be too upset with her, she may have only been able to ask a certain amount of people, in that situation, someone is bound to be left out.  She may have wanted you, but didn’t have enough spots.

Post # 4
7312 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011 - Bed & Breakfast

You don’t have to choose your bridesmaids now. You still have more than a year until your wedding, so why not wait, give things time and breating room, and see how you feel after the new year? So many bees have bridesmaid regrets bacause they made decisions too soon. Learn from their mistakes.

Post # 5
197 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I agree with lovekiss!  I feel like people ask way too soon, I know I did and I have regrets.  A LOT changes over the year of being engaged, and you truly find out who your real friends/family are (unfortunately).  I would wait it out and see how you feel later on, there is no rush. 

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