- 7 years ago
- Wedding: September 2012
So I recently got engaged, booked my hall and church and now I’m trying to decide how many bridesmaids to have. I already have three picked out, and they’ve all graciously agreed to be there on my big day. I have a friend in mind to ask to be my last bridesmaid but I’m hesistant to ask her. She is getting married in a few months as well and I feel hurt that she never asked me to be in her party. To be fair, we did lose touch over the last few years but rekindled our friendship a few months prior to her engagement. Now the thing that digs at me is that i have a friend who also had lost touch with her and rekindled friendship at the same time i did, and she was asked to be a bridesmaid. I initially was kinda sad that she didnt ask me, but i got over it since it is her day. But everytime we all get together all they do is talk about the wedding and bridesmaids stuff, dresses, rehearsal dinners, shoes..and i am completely left out, just sitting there listening to this stuff that im not even involved in. I always thought it was kinda rude to talk about things that i wasnt even asked to be part of.
Anyway, after everthing i still was considering this girl to be a bridesmaid, but sometimes i feel like i shouldn’t bc she made me feel so rejected for her wedding. Im not a mean or spiteful person i just dont know if i’ll regret asking her. Any thoughts?