(Closed) Choosing Bridesmaids – Help !

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Honey bee

Are you asking about order of current bridesmaids or choosing bridesmaids?  If its the latter than you dont have to ask someone just because a boyfriend is in the wedding. If they are all in the wedding then yes, pair them up.

If its purely order. I would do alphabetical or height as a means of making it easy and not offending anyone due to order.

Post # 4
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

im a little confused too are you trying to decide on bridesmaids? or have you already chosen? im with lefeymw on this one. you dont have to ask them just because their boyfriends are groomsmen. I am allowing my bridemaids to have their dates/boyfriends sit with us at the head table so that they dont feel left out.

Post # 5
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130 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

there are many posts on WB are about bridesmaid drama. often i think “why did you even choose these women?” the way that you have described yours…well, why would you ask someone with an annoying ego and personality to be your bridesmaid? are you even close friends with the second? and do you trust the third at all? or is it just because 2 happen to be going out with your FI’s groomsmen and one is the life of the party? where are your good friends, the ones that you like and can trust? 

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