Post # 17
It sounds like you have a great and supportive group of ladies picked out! I don’t think your selection is weird at all. I’m sure your Fiance will be thrilled that you considered his lady friends too. Even if it is a little weird (because people start to wonder who’s in and who’s not), I would definitely suggest waiting a little while before you ask anyone, like you mentioned.
Post # 18
A friend of mine did the uneven thing and it worked out great!
Post # 19
For Fiance and I, the groomsmen/bridesmaid thing has been so stressful. He has a ton of close friends, I have very few but plenty of acquaintences. I ended up going with a no brainer, a college roommate I don’t speak to often, but will love my whole life, and probably my FBIL’s girlfriend, who I hope will be my SIL some day (still haven’t asked, waiting on Fiance to ask his brother). I understand the struggle, and I think you just have to do what makes sense to you.
Post # 20
I’m having a horrible time picking bridesmaids too due to only having a few good friends. I just posted on it. It seems like you’re happy with your choices so I’m sure everything will work out great for you. Good luck!