(Closed) Choosing bridesmaids without hurting feelings

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
7358 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

People will not be as heartbroken as you think to be not invited to be bridesmaids. Trust me. Just invite the 2 you actually see. The others will surely be perfectly happy to be guests.


Post # 4
198 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

agree with pp. people will not have that hurt of feelings unless you dont even invite them to the wedding!

Post # 5
1847 posts
Buzzing bee

I agree with PP. If these girls are your closest friends they will understand that you see these 2 more often and they have a closer relationship with both you and your Fiance. If they say anything just tell them that your first choice was just your sisters but since your Fiance has 4 groomsmen you wanted an equal amount and hence picked the 2 girls who a/ you see the most and b/ are in the best position to help with the planning. They’ll understand. 

Post # 6
1379 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2015 - Chapel on Base

I agree also with PP.

  • This reply was modified 4 years ago by  PinkQueen.
Post # 7
45 posts

I would just ask the two and I’m sure the rest of your friends will understand.  As you mentioned they don’t live in the same city and they’re all pretty busy.  They will be excited just to be with you on the big day!

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