(Closed) Choosing MOH

posted 10 years ago in Christian
Post # 3
237 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I think you should start by realizing how lucky you are to have three such wonderful people that you could have stand up with you that day. It sounds like you are blessed with two wonderful supportive friends and a sister and for that you are very lucky. I would include your sister and I would ask her to be your Maid/Matron of Honor because she is your only sister. If you really feel like it is out of place to have her standing there with a different title than your friends you could chose to just have three BM’s and no honor attendant. There is nothing that says you must have a Maid/Matron of Honor and you could jsut include them all this way without making her role more specific/important.

Hope that helps.

Post # 4
14181 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I would include your sister….surely she believes in the institution of marriage and supporting you and acknowledges how important it is for you to be married in the church

Post # 5
7172 posts
Busy Beekeeper

I think you are overthinking it.  Honor the people in your life and be thankful your sister is willing to participate, even though she doesn’t share your beliefs.

You can also just have them all be BM’s and not have a Maid/Matron of Honor – just an idea!

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