- 8 years ago
- Wedding: July 2011
Okay, I have a lot of thoughts!
I got engaged, and not even a few days later I was calling and asking my girlfriends to be in the wedding. Not putting much thought into it and understanding the realities of planning a wedding, I dove in head first.
I am coming to a realization, that we may be a having a small wedding, and I may not need 4 bridesmaids, and one maid of honor. Oops, its kind of too late I think, but I am having all sorts of feeling on this subject. I dont know if I made the right decision. All the maids accepted which is a great thing.
We still do not have enough details about where the wedding is going to be and how much people we are going to invite etc. If it is a small wedding I do not think 5 maids are necessery, so here you can see my dilemma. Also, one maid I feel I need to ask because I am asking her sister and they are close, and I was close with both growing up, but one drifted and I became closer with just one. Does that make sense? So I feel obligated to ask.
Is it too late? I could say that I jumped the gun out of excitement and without thinking about the preperation and cost chose 5 people, and still invit them to the wedding. I am afraid this could harm the friendship.
Arg I feel like a bad friend.
We still dont know how we want the wedding to go, so I have not said anything. Arg….any thoughts?