(Closed) Christmas Cards but not yet married?

posted 10 years ago in Paper
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

That sounds like a great us of your e-pics!  We’ve been sending out Christmas cards together since we’ve been engaged.  The only time it’s weird (I think) is like when the couple sending them out together is early in their relationship and most people their sending it too don’t even know the SO, met them, or know they’re together.  True story: a crazy ex-gf of one of my guy friends made photo christmas cards to send out when they’d only been dating a month.  Their relationship ended shortly after sending them out, haha!

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

We’ve been sending out Christmas cards since we moved in together four years ago!  you’re fine ;o)

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

Since we have been together for quite some time, we have sent out Christmas cards together prior to even being engaged.  Everyone already knew we were living together, so it wasn’t a big deal to grandparents or other family members.  Usually it was after a move to a new place too, so we could update addresses. 

Post # 7
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

It is fine to send out cards together even if you aren’t married.  My husband’s cousin sent them out last year, they are juniors in college this year and won’t be married for another 2 years at least.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I think your situation is fine if you send christmas cards, because you’re engaged and living together.

Hmm… I was thinking about doing this but we’re not living together (in college). Any thoughts bees?

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

Yep, my husband and I sent out joint Christmas cards when we were living together – and not yet engaged. I didn’t hear a word about it from anyone.

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

We have been sending Christmas cards together for four years and we just got engaged last Feb. We’ve been living together for 5. Nothing wrong with that!

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

We’ve been giving out X-mas cards together the last 2 years-haven’t been engaged or living together. I would think it’s fine.

Post # 13
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Newbee

I would be SERIOUSLY uncomfortable using a picture from a photographer that you slammed (even though right after the shoot, you went on and on about how great he was).  Why not just use pictures that your Boyfriend or Best Friend took?  

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

@HopefulBride- WTH does that have to do with her questiion? She was not asking about the photos. Your post seems a little suspicious to me.

Post # 15
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Newbee

Um, she said that she DESPISES her photos and I think that if she hates them so much, then she should use better photos she already has.  

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

YIKES…whats up with the tension HopefulBride?!

I say YES about sending Christmas cards!  The Fiance and I did it last year and we were just BF/GF, but living together.  It’ll be a nice thing for your family and friends to see pre-wedding!

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