Chubby dating sites?

posted 2 years ago in 30 Something
Post # 2
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Bumble bee

I’m sorry I am of no help but jfc that video was cringey.

I m also attracted to bigger fellas so I feel you on that but I just met him through my sister. Good luck OP.

Post # 4
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Busy bee

happycomelately :  IIR, there’s a search feature on some dating sites that allows you to search certain body types. But honestly it shouldn’t be hard, most guys over 26 are “more to love.” I guarantee any page with 20 results will have like 11+ porkers. 

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2018 - Fremont, CA

What an embarrassing video! Lol “who wants to smell it?”

Post # 8
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Busy bee

MiniMeow :  Yes, but she’s incredibly sensitive to the point of needing to create an online rant thread about people making comments that could possibly infer in some manner that she’s “heavy.”  The hypocrisy isn’t lost on me.  

Post # 9
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Busy bee

happycomelately :  Have you tried bumble? You can initiate contact with guys so you could restrict your contact to men who have the body type you’re looking for so maybe that would be more successful? Goodluck bee!

 

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2009 - New York, NY

litttlemisslamb :  Yup,that is quite the double standard

Post # 11
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Sugar bee

litttlemisslamb :  The comments are only hurtful when directed at her, didn’t you know?

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

happycomelately :  I don’t think large men are too hard to find in the western world. I guess you could target locations you would be more likely to find larger men!?…or use specific dating sites that allow you to use a filter function on body description.

Having said that… I met hubby on a dating site. At the time I was 200+ pounds. I used to get Fat Admirer guys message me all the time and it just felt dirty and ick like I was a piece of meat. I kid you not I’d get messages like ‘baby with me you can eat all you want and I’ll just find you more sexy’ or my favourite ‘I want to take you out to my favourite buffet where you can eat all you want and later I’ll take you home and eat all I want’. I don’t get it. Was I supposed to  jump at these men in thanks??!!…Bleh. I just felt so yuck and I still do when I think about those pervs. I get people have a specific aesthetic in what they look for in a partner but I don’t think they should put it above everything else OP. You may  want to fall for a larger guy but be aware that the outside changes. Musclemen lose muscle, larger men can lose weight, blondes may think that they’d have more fun as a brunette or go bald entirely. For that reason alone…I caution you on solely seeking out larger men or discounting a great guy because he weighs 180 pounds.

All I can say is I’m lucky I found husband…he’s fantastic and isn’t a Fat Admirer. He’s a Cmsgirl Admirer!! 😜

 

Post # 14
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Busy bee

I won’t even get into the creepy video and shitty comments, but I’ve never found larger guys particularly hard to find on or off line. Your best bet would likely be traditional dating sites or you run the risk of it getting fetishy real quick. Plus there’s a pretty solid chance anyone you date will get at least a bit heavier in their lifetime.

Post # 15
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

MiniMeow :  yes. Didn’t you know that according to calliekalico2 :  if you are a size 8 and over you’re a porker!

Seriously …calliekalico    :  you start a thread about people body shaming you about your size, body shame on that thread and then you come here and call people porkers… Like WTF?

I’m starting to wonder if the people you complained making ‘size’  comments about you on your other post have been on the receiving end of similar comments from you and are just giving you a taste of your own medicine. It must be nice to live in a bubble where you can be totally unaware of reality… 😒

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