Post # 1
I am just curious about this and am not even engaged yet so it’s mere curiosity.
I saw on some of the boards that it is rude to invite someone to a shower and not to the wedding. People put their shower information in our church bulliten if it is a church shower and anyone can come even if they aren’t all invited to the wedding. Is this considered rude?
Post # 3
No. Church showers fall in the work shower category – it’s a shower given by tradition by a certain group, not your bridesmaids or family, and therefore there is no requirement to invite the attendees to the wedding.
Post # 4
At our church, it’s common to invite the people who come to the church shower to the church part of the wedding – but our sanctuary is large and can fit pretty much anyone who shows up. I know we had way more people at the church part of our wedding.