Member- mukai
- 4 years ago
- Wedding: October 2013
I have a situation – My really close friend got engaged before me after dating her FI for 6 months and I got engaged 9 months after her after dating my FI 6 years.
When I told her of the news she was not happy and supportive she started telling me I have to have my wedding next year. Her wedding is this year August 2013 so i think she was jealous and didnt want to share the spot light after i told he rit was in 5 months she was so mad she cut me out she doesnt talk to me anymore maybe I have spoken to her twice since I set a date and this is me calling her several times.
Prior to me getting engaged she used to call me early hours of the morning asking me which songs to pay for her wedding and also to give feedback for her wedding website.’
Instead of her being happy for me she became mean and hateful, her wedding is next week in a diff state I called her she doesnt pick up, I picked her wedding dress for her and she purchased it without even tryin it on she finally had her first fitting she refused to how me pics said if i want to see her in the dress i should come to the wedding and see.
I have decided I am nolonger attending her wedding though I had RSVP’d I tried to call her today she didnt pick uo once again, I cant waste $1000 for the entire trip when I am having my wedding in a couple of weeks, and because I am not being treated well because I got engaged, I thought this would be a fun time for us to celebrate our new lives but i guess I was wrong.
I guess me not attending will not be the same again I will have to say bye to this relationship.
Has anyone gone through this.
