(Closed) Cluster Hate

posted 3 years ago in Rings
Post # 2
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314 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

You know what? You get more bling for your buck! If you love it, rock it.

There are SO many boards here with cluster love…look for them & rejoice because your best friend gave you a beautiful ring to start your lives together ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 3
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139 posts
Blushing bee

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mamabear2121 :  It’s beautiful! I’m typically not a cluster person, but I think yours is well done and gorgeous! I actually saw my first cluster ring in-person today, and you could tell it was a cluster. In my opinion, yours blends together very well, and as long as you love it, that’s all that matters. 

Post # 4
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109 posts
Blushing bee

Do you like your ring?

“Haters gonna hate” as the kids say these days. What matters is that you like it. Nothing else. It looks shiny…and the love it serves to represent will keep you warm on even the coldest, most terrible day that life serves up. Wear it in health and ignore those who mock others carelessly.

XXX

Post # 5
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576 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2000

It doesn’t matter what you choose, someone is going to hate it. It will be too big, too small, too colorful, too white…  Be proud of a ring that reflects your style, and ignore other people’s comments. 

Post # 6
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255 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: The Hayloft

If you love it that is all that matters. It’s the sentiment that matters with this ring. Someone loves you and wants to marry you and you want to marry them too and that is an incredible thing. Besides it’s a beautiful ring. 

There will always be someone who doesn’t love what you do. Good thing there are so many options and ring designs. Flaunt it with pride girl!

Post # 7
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3774 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2004

The beauty of different styles is that there is something for everyone! Personally, I dislike clusters. I have a three stone and some people think they are ugly. I love my ring whether someone else does or not. If you love it, rock it. Different strokes for different folks.

Post # 8
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2016

All that matters is that you love it.

I have a sapphire and lots of people wouldn’t want one for thier own ring. But it doesn’t matter what they think.

Post # 9
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220 posts
Helper bee

It’s pretty and blingy- disregard the haters!

Post # 10
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42 posts
Newbee

I actually really like your cluster! for me I either love them or hate them. no in between. no offense to anyone who has a ring like this. but I hate clusters that are done like this. 

 

 

but yours is pretty!!! 

Post # 11
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622 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2019

There’s no hate just preference.  Most women do not prefer that style–some like their ring more intricate and complex, others like simple. 

I like simple, and I prefer solitaire.  That means I don’t prefer cluster rings like yours.  Why am I singled out for not liking your ring? I don’t have to like yours and you don’t have to like mine.  

In sum, no one truly cares about your ring. If your goal is to wear what you love, then continue wearing your ring with pride.  But if your goal is to WOW everyone, then you’re on a fools errand since that’s literally impossible.  Since you cannot please everyone, might as well please yourself. 

Post # 12
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1985 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

It’s about what you love. not what anyone else thinks. 

Post # 13
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

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mamabear2121 :  We all like what we like.  Personally that’s too much going on for me, but it would be if you had a single stone in there as well.  I am not a blingy person.  My ring is likely super dull to people on this site (based on what I’ve seen everyone else wearing).  But in reality and on the bee, no one actually says so.  They just sort of say nothing and I can draw my own conclusions or not.

What gets me is why in the heck do people think it’s okay to tell you they hate your ring?  What’s it to them?  Where is the benefit?  If this is happening in your real life, I think you should call people out.  Embarrass them and watch them squirm while trying to pull their foot out of their throat.  No one has time for that kind of crap.

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

I wouldn’t let it get to you! Some people hate princess cuts, some people hate halos…everyone has an opinion. All that matters is that you like it. For what it’s worth, I LOVE my cluster ring: 

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2016 - Surfer\'s Beach, Grand Cayman

Ignore the hate around here about clusters, it comes from insecurity. Nobody in their right mind who is secure in themselves and their ring would give a damn if someone else chooses a cluster or any other kind of ring. Enjoy your ring! 

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