(Closed) Cluster Hate

posted 3 years ago in Rings
Post # 31
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

You honestly cant win so why try. Halos are too trendy, clusters yuck, solitaires soooo boring and lame bla bla bla on and on. Someone on here told me my ring is grotesque once! lol. You do you, dont sweat it.

Post # 32
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175 posts
Blushing bee

I LOVE clusters!! Yours is beautiful!!!!

Post # 33
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3114 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2016 - Surfer\'s Beach, Grand Cayman

janvier :  I’m not talking about personal preference, I’m talking about comments I’ve seen on these boards about how women who have clusters are just trying to pass off a larger ring they can’t afford, how they are tacky and cheap, how they aren’t “real” engagement rings etc. I have personal preferences too, but when you insult people for their choices it generally does come down to insecurity.

 

Post # 34
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469 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

I think it’s gorgeous! Love it!

Post # 35
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306 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

If you like it that’s all that matters! Bees on here can be pretty harsh, but ultimately these things are personal taste. Love your ring. You picked it out and it means you’re going to get married, woo!

Post # 36
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39 posts
Newbee

Love Clusters! Mine is a daisy cluster upgrade from a plain solitaire. I’ve had some hate but I love it and that’s all that matters! If u love it wear it and enjoy that extra sparkle u get with a cluster ❤

Post # 37
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25 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: November 2014

There are a lot of people on here that don’t like clusters and are all for solitaires.  Please don’t doubt your ring.  It is beautiful.  I went through the same thing.  My husband upgraded my ring to a two carat bridal set that some would call a cluster style.  I loved it till I got on here.  Alot of these people are snobs and looking for a reason to put someone’s ring down.  I personally picked my set because I like symmetry and solitaires are boring to me. Girl, show off your bling, be appreciate that your fiance bought if for you and ignore the bull!  Your ring is not less than anyone else’s, it’s all about personal style and preferences.  

Post # 38
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425 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Agree with all of the above, your ring is stunning!!! So many different opinions are why we all have different rings…to put someone else down for their choice is so wrong but sadly it always happens. I have the very unpopular “halo” and “princess cut” so while its not popular on the bee, I love it. I always have a chuckle when i read about solitaires being “”classic” and “timeless”…my personal opinion is “plain boring” but having said that , I love ALL rings and whoever is wearing the ering….is most likely wearing what suits them best …I also disagree when people assume “clusters” are supposed to look like one big stone….since when??? They are supposed to look like one beautiful piece of bling…and they do, yours is beautiful

Post # 39
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19 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2017

What a beautiful ring…it really is stunning!!

never mind the so called “haters”.

 

Post # 40
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42 posts
Newbee

it’s so funny cause half of the people who say that clusters are trying to pass off as being larger than they really are, have halos. which in the technical sense do the same thing, and offer more finger coverage. don’t let it bother you. your ring is pretty! 

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