- 6 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012
I’m the Maid/Matron of Honor and my fiance is the Bridesmaid or Best Man for our best friends who are getting married in July just two months before our wedding . Obviously this worries us because we still have to pay for our wedding, but now we’ve run into a problem. Our friends have decided they want a co-bachelor/ette party because they’re huge party animals and can’t bare to be apart for it. In most bachlorette parties and I know the Maid/Matron of Honor usually pays for the bride’s share of the party fun as well as the Bridesmaid or Best Man does the same for the groom, but in our case we can’t afford to pay for a large co-party!! No matter what they’re going to have it together so talking to her about splitting it up isn’t an option and it’s her party so I’m not going to ruin it, but how do I tell her that we can’t afford that?? Any advice?