(Closed) Co-worker dilema

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 1
Member
140 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

So I have a lot of people that I work with in my department.  I plan on inviting about half of them, becasue they are co-workers that I am close to that know my fiance. The problem I am facing is I know there are my 3 managers, 2 of which I like, but I can’t invite 2 and not the third. Then they are other co-workers that I work with that I don’t hang out with and aren’t really my favorite, that I know will expect to be invited.  Has anyone else encountered this?  I have encountered 2 other girls in my department who got married and made everyone feel like it was a privialge to even be invited to their weddings and kind of threw it in the faces of those they didn’t invite.  I don’t want to hurt people’s feelings, but I can’t invite everyone.  Any advice?  Thanks!

Post # 3
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294 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I tend to not get too much into wedding stuff at the office. They all know I’m getting married, but usually the questions are generic, like “have you picked this?” or “what you decided what to do about xyz?”.  i give short, polite answers but that is it. I plan mail to their homes privately the individuals who are invited.

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