Cold Feet.

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
Post # 16
491 posts
Helper bee

wildflower3 :  I’m just sick to death of all these guys (in my own life and described on this board) that will use literally any excuse instead of just admitting they dont want to marry any time soon. The excuse can be anything from he needs to lose weight to he wants his gf to have more “chemistry” with his parents (read both of these here within the last few weeks). It always boils down to “its not you, its something out of my control, poor me”. Having a friend or parent that once divorced is another super common one. As if they don’t know anyone who is unmarried and whose relationship failed? My tolerance for these sort of people is just down to zero. 

But like everything its not that simple. You know him obviously, I’m sure his reasons are true in your case. Its good he seems to want to address the issue together. 

Post # 17
3828 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2016

pancakes11 :  Agree 100%  I have a close friend who’s going through almost the same thing as the OP and it’s pretty clear in my friend’s case that the guy doesn’t want her to move out to him and doesn’t want to/isn’t ready to get married (they are not engaged).  I just wish he’d be honest with her instead of wasting her time.

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