(Closed) Cold Feet or …? (Long, Sorry)

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
5982 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

Of course this guy seems awesome…you hardly know him!  You and FI know all of each other’s stories, jokes, tells, favorite food and even what you look like when your dead dog sick….you know all the wonderful stuff about this guy and none of that ordinary, thanks for leaving the sink all hairy after shaving stuff, who can compare to that?  Nobody!  I can assure you that this brilliant Adonis who is articulate and funny and witty is also probably a smart ass, a little arrogant and probably a bit of a playboy…we all have our flaws, and the reason this guy is sticking with you is because he is slick and managed to look fabulous the WHOLE night to you with no slip ups what-so-ever!  Remind yourself that no one is as wonderful as they seem and that you PICKED your FI because of who he is, and what he is compliments you, not imitates it.

Post # 5
Member
5982 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

And please don’t beat yourself up over a little late night kissy face with some fast talking, silver tongued Wordsworth…you feel bad about it, you love your FI, take the lesson and forget the guilt..we all slip up now and then.

Post # 6
Member
9145 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

Don’t put yourself in a position like that.  Of course this guy is sexy and interesting, you haven’t had to deal with walking into the bathroom after he has had a s#it.  It’s easy for him to sweep you off your feet, he only has one agenda and that is to impress you for the evening.  I am not saying don’t talk to other men or that there is anything wrong with being attracted to other men, just don’t hang out with one for hours and hours putting yourself in a position where cheating would be easy, especially if you’re a bit drunk.

And ditto Nona99.

Post # 8
Member
1038 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

How did you talk to this guy for like 6 hours without Once mentioning your FI?

Post # 9
Member
772 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@AnonBee86:  New and attractive people are always going to be exciting, DUH!  But, when you choose to marry, you are also choosing to STOP LOOKING!! 

Take this as a lesson learned.  When a guy approaches you at a bar – you say “Hey, nice to meet you but I’m married.  Why don’t you go buy that pretty blond a drink, I don’t see a ring on her finger…”

I’m glad you were forthcoming with your FI and he was understanding.  That just solidifies you are making the right choice in marrying him. 

Post # 10
Member
11760 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Nona99:  +1

 

The topic ‘Cold Feet or …? (Long, Sorry)’ is closed to new replies.

Get our weekly roundup of the best of Weddingbee.
I agree to receive emails from the site. I can withdraw my consent at any time by unsubscribing.

Find Amazing Vendors