- 10 years ago
- Wedding: October 2010
Wow, I am sorry this has happened to you. All I can say is, what if the shoe was on the other foot? What if your Fiance had this OW he met and really hit it off? What if he continued talking to her because they “hit it off”? The grass is always greener on the other side until you hop the fence and see it has been spray painted! Yeah it could be a once in a life time opportunity to find the man of your dreams but it could also be a once in a lifetime opportunity to make the biggest mistake of your life.
To me it sounds like you were questioning your engagement and the fact you rationlized accepting his friend request is proof you haven’t fully committed to the idea of being in a monogomous relationship for the rest of your life. What if you had already been married? Would you have accepted this request despite how you feel? It is always better to end one thing before starting another. Now the question is, is your current relationship worth ending?