(Closed) Collection of my dress

posted 4 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
Hostess
23790 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@BabyBrain:  You’re the bride, you get to make this decision! 😀

Post # 4
Member
1078 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Greenbrier Country Club

@pengoala:  +1

Do what you want 🙂

Post # 5
Member
8 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Who to take with you to pick it up?  You don’t need to bring anyone if you don’t want to. My mom was with me when i picked it out and she bought it for me.  I picked it up and brought it home by myself a few weeks later when it came in. I didn’t even consider bringing anyone with me to pick it up, because it may be exciting for me, but can’t imagine it would be for them.  So i just brought it home, tried it on, and put it back in the bag.  Easy peasy!

Post # 6
Member
3596 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2000

@BabyBrain:  I that yet another job that bridesmaid have to perform, going to pick up a dress? That just seems–excessive.

Post # 8
Member
3266 posts
Sugar bee

@BabyBrain:  You get to decide.  But do so knowing that you can be perfectly polite, and still have people be upset. 

You have to think about what happens if this 4th BM finds out she has been intentionally excluded and creates drama.  Is this something you want to deal with this close to the wedding?

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