(Closed) Combined Shower/Wedding Thank You notes?

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: What should I do?
    Send one note now mentioning both gifts and coming to the shower : (3 votes)
    12 %
    Send 2 notes now: one for the shower gift, one for the wedding gift : (10 votes)
    38 %
    Send 2 notes spaced a week apart: one for the shower gift, one for the wedding gift : (13 votes)
    50 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    5572 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I’m planning on sending separate thank you notes for the shower and wedding gifts. In your situation I’d send out the shower notes now since they’re done and then you can either send thank you’s as the gifts come in or as soon after the wedding as possible.

    Post # 4
    Member
    1144 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    I plan on sending separate notes as well. I would send the shower notes now and then the wedding thank you’s as I recieve the gifts. I would hate for someone to come to the wedding feeling jaded because they sent me a gift weeks ago and did not recieve a thank you. That could just be me…

    Post # 5
    Member
    5148 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    2 events, 2 gifts = 2 thank-you notes

    Post # 7
    Member
    2600 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Actually, it’s perfectly acceptable to combine early gifts with shower gifts in one thank you card.  Just be sure to mention both so they know you got both and aren’t wondering.

    Good luck! 🙂

    Post # 8
    Member
    533 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    Personally I think if a guest took the time and spent the money on 2 gifts for me, the least I could do is send them 2 seperate thank-you notes.  I don’t think it matters if they are sent on the same day or a week apart, as long as you acknowledge both gifts seperately.

    Post # 9
    Member
    6998 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2011

    i am a terrible TERRIBLE bride! i still havent sent my thank you notes for my shower and my wedding was 2 months ago. even though i finished them the week after the shower….ill send them with my wedding thank you’s but 2 different thank you cards.

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