(Closed) Complete Ball of NERVES

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
363 posts
Helper bee

A lot of women here can relate to how you feel ๐Ÿ™‚ Although it’s hard to tell “when” it will happen, I’m sure it’s coming for you. 

One lady wrote on here (don’t remember who though) that once we’re engaged, we’ll look back and laugh at how anxious we were getting.  I don’t know, but for some reason that makes me feel better.  I can totally picture that in a few months,  a lot of waiting ladies *will* be engaged and will look back and thing “I remember those waiting day!” ๐Ÿ˜‰

***fingers crossed for you***


Post # 5
3303 posts
Sugar bee

Well since you already moved in, I hope it is soon- good luck!

Post # 6
2091 posts
Buzzing bee

I moved in without an engagment too, although I told my SO it would never happen. So I know what that’s like.. We got engaged 3 weeks later though.

I hope it’s coming to you soon though! Good luck!

Post # 7
7 posts

From one waiting girl to another, some words of advice: On your vacation, DON’T fixate on if it will happen. We recently went on a cruise for my birthday and I loved the cruise and being with my SO but I spent every day thinking, hoping, praying, making deals with devils and the like for him to propose but it different happen. We had been talking for months about getting engaged and he’s completely “on it” as he has told me repeatedly .I feel like I missed out on some of the fun of things because I was so fixated.

Have a GREAT vacation, relax, and let’s hope you (and all us waiting bees) hear the words soon! ๐Ÿ™‚ Best of luck to you!

Post # 8
326 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Finger’s crossed it happens on vacation!! Try to stay positive if he’s insisting he has a “plan” ๐Ÿ™‚ I’m sure it’s just around the corner for you!

Post # 9
413 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@SFreeman2187: I did the same thing as you… Moved in without a ring, expecting a proposal to happen ASAP. It didn’t. Here I am two years later, still waiting.

I’m not saying that will happen to you, but just be careful. Give it a few months, and if nothing happens by then, then speak up and say something.


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