(Closed) Completely rethinking my wedding

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 4
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6746 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

Woah, there are 2 reasons you’re not getting a lot of help – 1) you posted this in pets lol and 2) you asked so many questions, it’s really confusing.

Are you having 2 weddings?  One for your FI’s family and one for yours?

I would say, have the wedding either (a) at the venue you like best whether it’s in cali or PA or (b) at the venue where the majority of the people important to you can get to – aka PA, probably.  I would choose family over venue, so I would say PA.

As for summer themes, there’s a million and that can take a whole thread on its own.  What sort of colors did you have picked out for your winter wonderland theme? Why did you pick that theme? I would also consider picking a theme after picking a venue.  A certain venue might “speak” to you and then dictate your theme. 

Post # 6
Member
6746 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

@RobandLil0107:  Ok, good luck!  You can ask for this thread to be closed so people don’t continue to come here instead of to your new thread, once you post it.

Post # 7
Member
260 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I agree that you should have the wedding at the location where the people you care most about can attend. Too bad you can’t do a christmas in july theme. That would be like a winter wonderland theme just with warmer temperatures. 

Post # 8
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2295 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I know this isn’t that helpful, but how certain are you on the divorce finalization date? Those things can have a tendency to move around. I know you probably want to get married ASAP, but it could really cause you a lot of stress if you’re getting close to the date and it still isn’t finalized.

 

Post # 10
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11760 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I would be cautious in hardcore wedding planning for May or June beacuse divorces being finalized can be a bit unpredictable. I personally would not set a wedding date until the divorce was final.

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