(Closed) Complicated MOH Situation — Please Help

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
8353 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

From what you have described, it doesn’t seem like she has a very good relationship. Her Fiance seems very controlling and that is not a good thing. I think you need to talk to her when she isn’t around her Fiance and not on the phone. Meet halfway at a coffee shop or restaurant. If I were her friend, I would want to know that she has her eyes open about the relationship and that he really isn’t controlling as protrayed in your comments.

Post # 4
181 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

He sounds like a total flake. From what you’ve said, it will be surprising if this wedding actually takes place. Does she not see what he is doing? I would be devastated if I thought my future husband wasn’t excited about our upcoming marriage!

Post # 5
78 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I agree with the PP’s, although i do have to say, he sounds like a whiney little brat to me. Definitely talk to her about this. Tell her that you’re really concerned about everything that has been going on. Ask her if she needs to talk, and gently bring up the subject about her Fiance. She needs to see that he’s controlling. Do you know what his reasons are for cutting down the guest list? Is it becoming too much money or what?

Post # 7
42 posts
  • Wedding: November 2010

Even good weddings between loving couples are stressful enough. Is this something you really want to be a part of?

Post # 9
1641 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Are you accepting of her fiance? 

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