(Closed) Complicated pregnancies

posted 5 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 2
959 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

urchin:  I’m currently pregnant, but in my 1st trimester still. So, I cant relate on the struggles of being pregnant like you have. I just wanted to give my sympathies to you. I know that if something were to happen during my pregnancy I would feel as though it was my fault. I’d wonder what I could have done differently. But I know that is irrational. I just wanted to say that this isn’t your fault at all. I can’t make you feel less guilty, but I hope you know deep down that you couldn’t have controlled this. I hope you have a successful rest of your pregnancy.

Post # 3
47209 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

urchin:  Both of my babies were born prematurely, so I can empathize with you. There was no real reason found for these early labours, and thankfully both babies were healthy , although small at birth.

Mothers are great at carrying the burden of guilt, but you know deep down that there is nothing you could have done differently. Your body came the way it is. There is nothing that you can be held responsible for the way your body functions.

Instead you should be patting yourself on the back for the great way you are taking care of your body and your baby by getting regular health care.

Post # 4
2616 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

you are not alone – i had three very hard pregnancies and with preterm labor the last two that started at 28 and 26 weeks. dont worry and dont add more stress on to your body.  my niece also had kidney problems during her prengancies-she has three very healthy active children.


big hugs

Post # 5
1440 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I got gd, and my placenta failed, cutting my lo off of oxygen, resulting in emergency c section. She’s here and wonderful but I don’t think I’ll do pregnancy again.

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