(Closed) Compliments from DH, FI, SO, BF etc..

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Daily. ๐Ÿ™‚ He’s good about it and I am not used to be complimented at all. My favorite compliments come when it’s the end of the day and we’re both tired and snuggling on the couch and he just looks at me and tells me I’m beautiful. I love him. ๐Ÿ™‚ I’m a stay at home mom of 2 girls so I also really appreciate the ‘the house looks great!’ compliments.

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’d say probably at least once a day. He is very complimentary because he likes to do anything he can to make me smile. He means them though, its not just for show which I love too.

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

My fiance does daily also. He constantly tells me that I am a beautiful sexy woman. He also helps clean up after dinner and compliments the food I make because, i will admit, im a pretty damn good cook. I dont know if it matters but when your a stay at home mom running after a 4 and 5 year old a majority of the day….it just needs to be heard.

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Often, maybe every day or every other day.  He is truly great about showing appreciation or telling me how cute/sexy I look.  I reciprocate.  It sure makes a difference (having been in relationships where that doesn’t happen).

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@NCPwedding:  It does! I understand that! I’m 1 month away from having a 4 and 5 year old too! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

My other half is always complimenting me and the things I have done.  I also compliment him, I think its a two way street.

My sister has been having marriage trouble, one of the things she was whinging to me about was that her husband never complimented her on anything.  I asked her how often she had complimented him…..she couldn’t give me an answer.

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Everyday!!!

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

At least once a day. It’s always random and a lot of the time he just tells me I look pretty. I also try to compliment him as much as possible. I love it! ๐Ÿ™‚ And I agree that it definitely makes a difference in a relationship!

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

Every day, all the time, I feel bad that I don’t do it nearly as much as he does

Post # 12
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Buzzing Beekeeper

Several times a day. He’s so sweet <3

Post # 13
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

At least once a day, he may not flat out come out and say a compliment but indirectly he does lol he’s so weird that way but I still love him! hehe

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Hmm, my Fiance doesn’t show love vocally as much as I do. I am always saying I love you, thank you for doing X, you look so sexy today, etc. My Fiance is more the type to just clean the house, give me backrubs, make me dinner, bring me treats, etc. But that’s okay, we all show love in different ways. And when she DOES tell me I look hot or whatever, it makes me feel really good because I know she must really think so.

Post # 15
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Busy bee

I compliment him on a daily/multiple times a day basis, whereas he probably compliments me every other day or every few days.

I think it’s a difference in personality that accounts for this differential. I’m a very verbal person, and my SO is not so much. When we first started dating, he never complimented me, so it is something he has picked up.

Post # 16
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2010

Several times a day, both compliments and just expressing his feelings for me.  And I suck it right up (my primary love language is words of affirmation). He also give me plenty of hugs, foot rubs (I joke foot rubs are my other primary love language!) and that kind of thing. We always thank each other too, like for doing dishes or whatever.

I compliment him, tell him how I feel about him, and snuggle him a few times a day too which he loves but he is happier if I just do the laundry or something, ha ha. It is karma with a sense of humour that has me with someone whose love language is acts of service given my distaste of housework! Good in the sense he does a lot of housework and is very proactive, but bad in sense I need to do more of it.

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