Post # 61
hunterfigi1 : They are not unecessary (comments from Elderbee) – they are all all valid and true. A guy with 3 kids, 2 baby mamas, you’re not married , you have severe severe jealousy and insecurity issues and you want to bring a kid into that? Jesus fucking christ.
Not to mention you won’t answer any valid questions anyone asks if he’s involved in their lives or not or his past with this baby mama’s either.
Post # 62
- Wedding: August 2019 - City, State
I’m very disappointed that slomotion has not had more to say here.
Post # 63
+1 for more slomotion comments
hunterfigi1 : dude, LISTEN TO THE BEES. Come on. Everyone has given a lot of valid and constructive advice here and you’re acting childish af in your “blow offs” of everyone (most recently, Elderbee). You’re jealous and giving off major distrust of your partner (the frequently used emojis thing) and you seem to have little concept of how TTC works. We only have this kind of window into your life and you keep coming back and posting threads, so you obviously want comments of some kind from us. People are trying to help. You don’t seem to be in a good place with your partner right now and having a child should be put on hold until these things can be sorted out.
Post # 64
Sounds like you should definitely get married first. Buy the book Taking Charge of Your Fertility and read that. Relax on the timing. I’m 25 and I’d love to have a baby right now, but sometimes the best thing to do is just wait. Relax a little.
Post # 65
I’m terrified at the thought of OP reproducing.
Jesus Christ woman. Pull yourself together. Everything you’ve said SCREAMS red flag!
He has multiple children, with multiple ex’s? Did you ever stop to consider that HE is the common denominator of all the problems in his life? Yet somehow you are magically the key that will fix everything once you pop out yet another human being? How often does he see his other kids? What makes you think you won’t be the next ‘terrible ex’ on his list? He sounds beyond immature and irresponsible.
Post # 66
I do have to admit.. I often come back here in hopes to read about the situation with his current kids and how wonderful (?) of a stepmother OP is.
Post # 67
Be careful of what you wish for sea. OP may come back with one her crushing ripostes about what a bad job your mother did. She is an expert on these matters.
OP, l hope you have managed a bit of reflection and self assessment. And that you are back on birth control of some sort.