(Closed) concerned that fi family dont care now but…

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 5
423 posts
Helper bee

@rainbowbee:  Hang in there, sister. You care about this wedding (and party) and it’s going to be your first. Don’t let a few negative people bring you down. Don’t pay the slightest attention to them (I know, easier said that done) and go ahead with what you think will be the best. Mother Teresa has been called Hell’s Angel and a human trafficker and God alone knows what. Joan of Arc was burnt on a stake. Mary Magdalene has been called a whore. If even these women were not spared the barbs of criticism then who are we? You can’t make everybody happy. Just do what makes you happy and forget about the naysayers. 

Post # 6
862 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

All of this is really unfair to you.  Your fiance was married before, but you weren’t.  You’re a first (and hopefully ONLY) time bride, so your fiance should understand how big a deal this is to you.  You deserve to have the day of your dreams.  It sounds like your fiance didn’t get to have the day of his dreams either the first time he got married so I don’t understand why he doesn’t seem to want to do better this time around.  You both have a golden opportunity to have the wedding that you’ve BOTH always wanted!  As for his sister, I think she was pretty ungrateful and horrible to you, and I don’t condone sending anyone death threats for one second, but weddings do CRAZY things to people and I think she was probably just being over-emotional.  Is it not possible to make peace with her?  You don’t have to take continued abuse from her, but for your fiance’s sake, I think you should try to see if you can repair the relationship with her this time.  Hopefully she isn’t like this all the time.  Weddings really do bring out the worst in people.

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