(Closed) Concerns about FSIL’s wedding and ours

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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353 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Why don’t you find out when she’s planning to have her wedding? Go out to dinner all four of you, find out what their wedding plans are and then you can organize something that works for everyone.

You’re right that you can’t tell your Future Sister-In-Law when to have her wedding, if she chooses to have it in early spring as well you’ll just have to live with it. You get one wedding day and if you both have your hearts set on say April 2012 neither of you can make the other one change but you’ll have to try and work together.

Good luck!

Post # 4
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6892 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

I think Unsuspecting Bride said it perfectly.

You don’t know yet when they are thinking? I think it’s normal to have that conversation as two engaged couples. My friend and I both wanted March 2012. I know the whole “you only get one day” thing, but we ended up talking about it and Fiance and I decided we would move ours up to Feb. It just wasn’t that big of a deal. We didn’t want any issues. (This is a good friend; I.E. her parents will be invited, we’ll be bridesmaids for eachother, etc.) And I don’t care WHAT day it is when I get married to my Fiance, I just want it to be sooner rather than later. :p

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