(Closed) Confession Time

posted 7 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

I was never a bully but man, I was bullied severely from kindergarten all the way through my junior year of high school. It sucked. But I think as long as you realize that what you did was hella-wrong and are a different, better person now, it’s all good.

ETA: I guess my only confession is that when I was 19, I slept around a bit after I finally left the abusive jerk I’d been dating for two years. But that’s not really all that bad because I was smart about it. A couple of my friends were really bitchy and judgmental when they found out, but I still don’t see a problem. I’d been controlled and stifled for so long that imo, it was natural for me to want to experiment.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee

I was a whore after hs. 

 

Post # 6
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130 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I was also horribly bullied. I don’t even want to go into detail about it, but I hope you feel better after your “confession.” Maybe you should track down “Yolanda” and tell HER how sorry you are. I’m sure it would mean a lot more to her than to anonymous people on the internet.

ETA: Ah, you did.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee

I was also bullied to the point of wanting to kill myself. the girl that did it is still the same and has yet to apologize. I hope that karma comes to get her

Post # 9
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3521 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

@Mrs.Vowrenewal: You have to learn to let go of the anger and forgive even people who don’t want to be forgiven. I’ve learned that it’s SO self-destructive and unhealthy to cling to those bad feelings. 

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

i was never a mean girl/bully at school and glad of it – i hate to think of the life altering damage that would have been done to their victims

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

karma.

i was mean to someone in fourth grade …. and in sixth grade on the school trip …all my popular friends dropped out  and i wound up having to beg this girl to let me share her hotel room.  after that … i completely and totally get karma… if you were really mean and you didn’t get it dished back out to you … it hovers and zaps ya

Post # 14
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1466 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012 - Father's Vineyard Church/ A Touch of Class Banquet Center

I let people walk all over me to be liked. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend when I was 15 just so he would stay with me. That was one of the biggest regrets of my life. Not to mention my high school BFF was the biggest bitch ever. I used to let her steal my boyfriends and talk trash about our friends, and get her way so I didn’t lose her as a friend, even though it meant losing other people as friends. Finally in college, we ended up breaking off our friendship because she tried to go after Mr. D when she found out I liked him and he chose me. Thats when I started to stand up for myself. I wish I would have found that self-confidence years before that.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee

@Mrs Grape: trust me I’ve let it go. But its just sad that she thinks what she did was okay. 

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