(Closed) Confessions of a control freak

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
3170 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Little details about the wedding or your life together? Just take a deep breath and think before you say something. Is it really something that needs to be discussed or can you just let this one go? I am a total control freak, type A all the way. I’ve learned to stop, count to 5 and think about how important something is before I bring it up.

Post # 4
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122 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

You have to do other things to take your mind away from it.

How about a weekend away just relaxing or a night out – but you have to promise yourself to switch off!  Its hard but it can be done, I was getting worked up about stuff a few months ago and I just said, thats it I am having a week off.

I did nothing wedding related at all and all wedding talk/tv/thinking/websites were banned.

Post # 7
Member
3569 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

We also got a little carried away talking wedding wedding all the time. My Fi requested to have wedding free talk during the week. At first I put back. But it`s really helped up not become so overcome with the wedding, that and me posting on the bee.

Post # 8
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6123 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

@AshleyR83:  Can you two go try something new together this weekend?  Or go to a new place?

Fiance and I are going camping in the mountains to escape the heat and to just visit a new place. It will be a nice distraction so we can just focus on us and relaxing.

 

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