- 8 years ago
- Wedding: July 2011
I have a friend that I get along with really well, however my FH hates him with a passion. I think it is because he feels threatened by him, and thinks that he has a “thing” for me. However my friend (I will call him E) and I get along really well, however if I want to hang out with him or talk to him I feel like I can’t and that I am doing something wrong. Nothing has happened between me and him other than some joking around that was posted on my Facebook account. My FH read the whole conversation and although in this same conversation E asked about FH he was not happy about what was said, even though other people were involved in the posts. Also I really connect with him, I can tell him everything and he has been very helpful with any problems that I have had. It is a new friendship and I have known him only about 6 months longer than my FH, but why should I feel guilty that I want to be friends with him, I have a great deal of friends that are guys, and he has no problem with any of the rest of them. I mean his best friend even read the conversation we had and said that it wasn’t that bad, and that is my FH best friend that told him that. Honestly I don’t know what to do…I want to be friends with him and invite E to the wedding, but not at the expense of my relationship or the happiness of my wedding day….WHAT DO I DO?