(Closed) Conflict guest lists for 2 showers

posted 9 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
2680 posts
Sugar bee

Can your fiances grandmother and aunt talk about the shower and decide on the guest list that way?  Maybe you can have friends at one and family at another?

Post # 5
119 posts
Blushing bee

I would just leave the aunt’s shower well-enough alone. She clearly has her own ideas and is making her own plans. Just keep your expectations low. And try not to get involved, because it seems like more trouble than it’s worth.

But, as I understand it, you aren’t supposed to invite people to two showers anyway, excluding mothers, sisters and bridesmaids. Everyone else is supposed to only be invited to one shower. And no one is expected to give more than one shower gift.

So, I think the concern is less that no one would show up to the second one and more that no one will bring gifts to the second one.



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