- 7 years ago
My fatther (i’m the groom) originally pleged 3g to the planning of the wedding, we were basically going to match that with our own 3g we can save for the wedding.
The plan was simple wedding in the keys with close family and bigger reception at home. our original esitmates between welcome dinner, wedding, afterparty/reception and reception at home, and our own lodgeing and transportation pretty much hit the mark for the budget. now my dad emails me saying that we also need to factor in all the costs of transportation for our familys attenting and lodgeing (this would basically doublt the budget between 20 people flights and lodgeing) he says it would be rude to do what were doing without doing that. i disagree I pretty much had our entire core guest list commited to the plan before this and they all knew there expenses. but with him saying that his commited money would now go to basically transporting and putting up all my side of the family it would screw our budget and creat drama if my fiance’s side who we can’t afford to do that for found out.
frankly I want to say screw it and elope but don’t think that would go over the best lol