(Closed) Conflicting emotions while TTC

posted 7 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
2562 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I can totally relate.

Since I have come off of birth control in July, I have often felt like I alternating between limbo and an emotional roller coaster.

I am sad because I want a baby, then relieved, because we have lots of reno’s to do, and I won’t be able to help as much when I am pregnant, then scared, because I have not had a normal cycle since coming off of birth control, and if it doesn’t happen soon I am going to have to start dealing with a fertility specialist, which I don’t really want to do …  

Overall, I just wish I was pregnant though.

Post # 4
7771 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

I can relate.  I want it and do not equally- at least, that is how I feel sometimes.  Plus, I am NOT good with unknowns.  (hello!  Welcome to life, cbee!) 

You know what, they might not be pregnant after one month of trying.  MANY people say that, but for all you know, they could have been trying for years.  SERIOUSLY.  (Just saying, I know people lie about this.)

I know it is a difficult time though, and something very beyond your control.  Hang in there! 


Post # 5
610 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I totally know where your coming from. I have been pregnant twice and had two miscarriages with my future hubby. We plan on ttc after we are married in may and i really hope we have a healthy baby this time. It’s hard seeing all my friends who had babies after my miscarriages especially our one friend who found out his g.f was pregnant the same time we found out the first time. When i see his daughter it reminds me we should have a little one about her age right now. It’s hard and there are lots of ups and downs that come with TTC.

Post # 6
799 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

You are so not alone.  I think we all have those moments.  Hang in there.

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