(Closed) Confused??!!!!!

posted 8 years ago in Themes
Post # 3
168 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I don’t think the best man has to like it.  😉

I think you should relax and do what you think looks great.  I think the pearls will be gorgeous with that dress,

Post # 4
5977 posts
Bee Keeper

I agree! It’s your wedding, and it doesn’t matter what the best man likes! If you’re still worried, silver may look nice with everything. The girls in a silver shoe would look nice with the dress color.

I think that white hydrangeas would look great with your dress. Why would your mom think it would clash? Do what you want! It’s your wedding and anything goes!

Post # 5
2226 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Ok, the best thing to do is to take it one peice at a time.  If you start looking at EVERYTHING you have to do, you’ll get overwhelmed very quickly!

The Bridesmaid or Best Man dress is very pretty!  However, I think black may not go as well with it, especially in a June wedding.  Unless black is your accent color, then just ignore me! 🙂

As for the boys’ ties and flowers, what is your accent color?  That may help you as far as flowers go.

I think a white shirt on the guys will be ok.  It’s not like they’ll be so close to you, it’ll be noticeable.  Plus, if they’re wearing a jacket, it’ll really not be noticeable.

Vintage pearls are always classic. In my opinion, they go with everything.

On a side note, I’d tell the best man to hush!  So what if he doesn’t like it.  It’s your wedding!  I guess I’m just mean like that 🙂

Good luck!  It will all turn out beautifully!!

Post # 6
339 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I agree with the prior posts.  White hydreangeas, or any white flowers will look beautiful with your dress and compliment the Bridesmaid or Best Man dresses really nicely.  I would also say that black shoes probably won’t look the best.  I vote for silver. 

The groomsmen’s shirts will look fine in white.  For a tie, have you shopped around for something kind of simple, maybe a soft silver color? (I’m not the best when it comes to men’s fashion, though!)

See the aqua and white is so pretty:


Post # 7
10367 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

How about adding in a lighter aqua as an accent color? It would still be in the same family, and you could have the groomsmen wear their ties/pocket squares in that color? Or lighter tie and the pocket square the dark aqua of the bridesmaids dresses? Definitely don’t do blue shirts. Trust your groomsmen on that one!! White will look perfectly fine next to your dress, I promise!

Post # 10
241 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

is your bestman paying?? my guess is no so have it the way you want it.. it not his wedding its yours… go for it!

Post # 12
962 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

this is the first time i’ve read your post, but i’m glad when i got to the bottom to see the BMs weren’t wearing black shoes!

sounds like you’ve figured it all out!

good luck!

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