- 7 years ago
So, I know this is a wedding site, but like a lot of posters, I’m on here because of my ex and stayed because I really liked the boards.
I have been dating a guy for almost exactly a month. It’ll be four weeks tomorrow, and a month on Friday. Things have been going great. We are both very laid back and get along very well. Honestly, I’m starting to fall for him already. I didn’t plan to, and definitely did not want to yet. We’ve gone on around 15 dates in that time. It works out to us going on a date about every other day. He met my family this weekend, and I’ve met his sister. I probably would have met more of his family by now, if they didn’t all live in a different state.
About two weeks in, I kind of hinted at wanting something more. I know, it was early, but I figured we had gone on a lot of dates very quickly. It was on my mind, and I had to at least know he was thinking about it. He said that he really liked me, but that he needed a bit more time. I said that was fine, and that I didn’t want to pressure him. I said I was interested in more, but that I would give him time. I told him that I wouldn’t bring it up again, and he could let me know when he was ready.
I should mention here that we both got out of serious relationships a few months before we met.
So that was over two weeks ago. Neither of us have brought it up again. I would be perfectly fine with this, except for the fact that we met online. We both still have profiles up, and in a way it bothers me. We were joking about it this weekend, and I told him very seriously that I haven’t messaged anyone on the site since we went on our first date. I’ve gotten on, but mostly to see if he’s getting on, and to read messages people send me. I haven’t replied or sent anything since I met him. I have seen that he does still get on. However, he honestly cannot be meeting up with anyone. Pretty much any free time he has he spends with me.
I feel like I’m at the point where I want to make it official, and delete our profiles. However, I want him to be the one to make that move, and I’m not sure if I’m rushing things. I’m not sure what I’m looking for here. I guess I just want advice, even if it is someone telling me I need to calm down. The last thing I want to do is push him, but it is hard to hide my feelings sometimes.