(Closed) Confused – Am I Waiting or Not?

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
443 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

My Fiance and were only together for 16 months before he proposed (and we had started talking marriage about 6 months into the relationship). But he had told me he would not propose until after we were together a year. I still don’t understand the reasoning with that, but I was ok with it.

We are both in our late 20’s so we were ready to settle down. But before he met me, he admits that he had never even considered the possibility of marriage.

It scared me at first (and the fact that his longest relationship prior was 4 months), but in time he showed me that he was ready and mature enough for this committment.

I dont know how helpful my story is to you, but I have gone through a similar situration and mine worked out. I just had to have patience.

Good Luck Bee!



Post # 4
5963 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

Never force things, it does not work out…my husband and I were married nine months after we met and that was five years ago…when it’s right, it’s right….everything else just leads you to that.

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