Confused by behaviour … is he being manipulative or am I insecure??

posted 3 weeks ago in Relationships
Post # 63
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2019 - City, State

needadvice2019 :  OP, this guy is so gross! You deserve a whole lot better than this. I completely understand how things slowly build up and you you’re too busy burying one tiny red flag that you don’t see the entire field of red flags you’ve buried over the past however long. But now you see it… now you realize what’s been happening and it’s time to do something about it. Learning to trust yourself is hard, learning to listen to the screaming voice inside your head saying “this isn’t right” is hard. But you it was there all along, and the more you listen to it, the more predominant it will become and it’ll be easier to distinguish. I wish you the best of luck figuring out your next steps and where you want to go from here. 

Post # 65
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

sunburn :  

Seventeen, Bee?  You are being quite charitable today.

Post # 66
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2021 - Dracut, Massachusetts

As another bee posted in a different thread to quote, here is the E-Business card being handed over to you.

“Please don’t determine your worth by the actions of a smelly, disgusting turd.”

This applies to this in the sense of his disgusting behavior and lack of respect for you and women in general. Do yourself a favor and walkl your fine ass out that door sister!!

Post # 68
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

needadvice2019 :  how long have you been with him? He sounds REPULSIVE 

Post # 69
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Worker bee

Gross. I can’t be the only one who feels like she needs a shower after reading about this guy…

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